In
Matthew 23 verse 4, Jesus says “Do not be like the Pharisees; for they tie up
heavy burdens (hard to carry) and lay them on people’s shoulders, but they will
not lift a finger to move them.”
Let
us not be like that. How do we act this way today? The Pharisees were teachers
of the law, and so had a special responsibility to be kind and generous with
their laws, instead of piling on impossible demands. Do these words apply to us
modern Christians? Oh yes!! We are not excused from the Lord’s challenge. When
do we lay heavy burdens on others, without lifting a finger to help them? If we lay a burden, will we help carry it?
When a young woman becomes pregnant on an
impulsive poor choice, discovers too late that her lover is abusive and
indifferent to her, faces loss of her job and family if she carries the child
through, and we tell her “abortion is a sin” we lay a heavy burden on her. A
very heavy burden. Are we prepared to help her carry it? To help raise that
child, to provide for this woman, to defend her from her accusers? Or are we
sitting in our living room or kitchen, feeling self -righteous and morally
upright because we have denounced a “pro choice” political candidate? Beware
the leaven of the Pharisee!
When
a young man or woman who is gay seeks to share their life in committed love,
and wishes to have all of the recognition that society can afford to support
and recognize that commitment, and we tell them gay marriage is a sin, we lay a
heavy burden indeed. Are we prepared to share the burden? To help carry it? To
join in solidarity, denying ourselves the advantages of marriage as well so as
to be united with our gay brothers and sisters? To dedicate ourself to them as a family member then? If not, we share the leaven of
the Pharisee when we condemn them to a marriage-less life but excuse ourselves from helping!
Whenever
we enjoy our electricity, our car, our cheap and abundant meat and other food
and our cheap gasoline, our low-priced consumer goods at the mall, we are
laying a heavy burden on those who suffer from air pollution, on those whose
food is too expensive because we must have our grain-fed meat on our table, on
those who labor without a just wage because we must shop at the lowest-priced
store in town, on those. Are we prepared to share that burden, to help carry
it? To do with less so that they may have a lighter burden or at least to keep ourselves from forgetting?
When
we send soldiers to die in a war, but are unwilling to make hard sacrifices
that may render the war unnecessary, we lay a heavy burden on them and their
families without lifting a finger to help. When we ask those soldiers to kill,
but offer nothing to the victims of the war, keeping our own comforts
unchanged, being untouched by the horrors they must carry their entire life
now, we are laying down still more burdens.
Whenever
we urge others to be more responsible, and to make sacrifices, while sitting
back and doing nothing to help them, we lay a burden like the Pharisees.
It
takes thought, it takes imagination, but most of all it takes personal
sacrifice.
Until
we make a personal sacrifice in solidarity to back up our morality, our
morality is nothing but self-serving, hot air, and empty hypocrisy. It is
finger pointing, it is sinful. Jesus had no patience, no tolerance, for this
type of hypocrisy or this type of “morality”. In fact, in the entire Gospels he
never condemned anyone, except the hypocrites who judged others. Let that give
us pause in our loud morality. For as Christians today we practice it all the
time, and we watch our politicians stand up and pronounce their hypocrisy and
we never call them on it, instead we nod in agreement.
Let
me spend less time focusing on “morality for other people,” that is, other
people who should not have abortions, who should not get married, who should go
off to war on my behalf, who must learn to live with less because I don’t want
to think about the connections. Let me spend more time focusing on what
morality demands of me personally, on
what sacrifice in solidarity I will make to show that my morality is worth
paying a personal price for. If a politician denounces abortion, but does not
lift a finger to help women who are in a terrible predicament, his morality is
empty and not worthy of support. When a politician makes a moral statement and
applies it to him or herself, then we may want to listen. And in the meantime,
let us all recall, before we denounce and set legal limits on others behavior,
that the One who said “do not sin” also said, “do not judge.”
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